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Go. To. Sleep.

Sophie (at 9:37pm, after asking for a glass of water, while both boys are screaming for me): “Why are you a little stompy right now?”

I guess the hardwood floor in her room did a poor job of hiding tonight’s frustration.

“There was never a child so lovely but his mother was glad to get him to sleep.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson

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    evening walk I’ve been taking walks in the cemetery by our house. I’ve written about our next door “remembering place” before. It’s beautiful. I’m partly drawn to its orderliness. Walkways and drives lined with tall pines and flowering trees, stones in rows, fonts carved carefully. Our house is not orderly these days. We’re trying. Or not really. Basically it’s Lord of the Flies while Andy and I (sort of) work. Tonight after dinner we had a family meeting. Topics included waking up before noon, not waiting to eat lunch until 4 o’clock (and eating the cut-and-prepared-and-completely-ready-for-them veggies and fruits, not just carbs), limiting electronic time and helping out around the house. We like for the kids to feel like they have a voice in these family meetings so after we agreed on a very basic schedule we started sharing ideas on how to best keep the house somewhat orderly. It was then that Andy remembered one of our most favorite home videos. I’m putting a link to the two-minute clip in the comments. After watching I realized a lot of raising kids is just having the same family meetings over and over. (And maybe marriage too, ha.) Perhaps, in many ways, permanent orderliness is best reserved for death. (Still, I can’t even begin to express how happy I would be if Owen’s video solution actually happened on a daily basis.) Walking about a mile there and a mile back to pick this up justifies eating it all, no? Thankful for @midwaycafefortthomas and their super easy/sanitized pick-up process. Restaurant food feels so decadent! We have to grocery shop tomorrow. Considering Costco and haven’t been there since this all started. Any tips? (Need tp too.) Listening to the March 29th episode of This American Life, “The Test,” while I scrub down the porch. It’s a difficult listen, but a sobering lesson on why staying home is a must. My duty in this pandemic is so easy right now. So easy. Give it a listen if you’re able. The couple who is caring for a toddler while they both have it, the daughter who can’t visit her mom in the nursing home, the EMT who can’t comfort someone newly widowed with human touch. Just, listen (if you can). These first-person stories are so important amongst all the other noise. Those two shadowy figures are inspecting the front window for cracks after their Wiffle ball hit it hard, and they have no idea I’ve witnessed the whole thing. It reminds me of one of my dad’s favorite childhood stories. Sitting on the porch under a quilt, working. Checked the mail. Gut punch. Thought I was out. ⬜️🟫 “Boys, go outside and draw something happy on the sidewalks.” I went outside 40 minutes later to take a walk. At first I thought, This is all they drew? Then I looked down the sidewalk. “We drew 107 of them!” they said. Their goal is a 1,000 before it rains. They’re out there now. 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Twenty-some of the sweetest notes, pictures, drawings and texts from family and friends. Pop pop practicing all day on his new guitar to play “Happy birthday” for us all on Zoom. Clapping and laughter and loved tinged with sadness in the acknowledgment that the world is different right now, you want your grandparents at your birthday dinner, a canceled sleepover is a bummer and the bitter is sometimes a bit brighter than the sweet the older you become. Growing up can be so hard but all your genuine smiling today and hugs reminded me of the grace that comes with maturity and, despite the eye rolls, how much you’ve learned. 12, almost 13. How? I’m so lucky I get to be this kid’s mom. This is from Tomie dePaola’s Book of Poems (a fitting poem, by Emily Dickinson, art by Tomie dePaola). 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